Well this was not what I was going for but I just could not get exactly what I wanted. But I am happy with this one. I was going for this shot but with some fill flash. I just couldn't get a good combo of shutter speed and flash output to get what I wanted.

But I am happy with this one that only uses the light from the window. I did go a little out of focus on purpose to try for a soft feel. Not thrilled with that either.

Here is the one with the fill flash and sharper focus. http://www4.pbase.com/lundy/image/39202326