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23-APR-2016

Masalama (farewell)

Well, we’re leaving Saudi Arabia tonight for good, after almost three years here. How funny is it that I didn’t want to come to Riyadh at all and almost stayed in Budapest, and now I’m very sad to be going. It has been an exotic adventure, and there isn’t a single day that I didn’t see something interesting when we went out – it was a constant fascination. Life here isn’t what I would call easy, yet I’ve been comfortable, albeit a bit isolated, working remotely from home as I do. The embassy community has been a great support, and I’ve met some wonderful people during our stay.

Before we arrived, and even on the night we first landed, I was told that photography was very difficult in the kingdom and that I wouldn’t be able to take many pictures. That obviously wasn’t the case since I’ve built up quite a large body of work during our time here – one just has to be careful about photographing people without their permission and government installations, and it’s best to be discreet when shooting any picture. I’m grateful to have had the opportunity to show my Pbase friends what this country is like, and I hope I’ve managed to change at least some common perceptions in the process. Of course there are problems here that everybody has heard about, but it’s a real country with real people who lead normal lives, although different from most lives in the West. I have found the Saudis to be incredibly hospitable and gracious and very good friends as well. I will miss them and their unique culture, and in fact most things about this place, except maybe the brutal heat (but I have even come to terms with that). Washington will seem boring by comparison ;-).

I waited until I was leaving to post this picture; it was taken on the US base, where women are allowed drive. But I wanted to say I had driven a car in Saudi Arabia, and so I did.

Shedding my abayas! posted earlier:


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MarcViskens23-Sep-2016 20:07
thanks for sharing all these beauty Helen
we're very lucky
Buz Kiefer10-Jun-2016 19:49
Great departing photos and video. Very nice good by to Saudi. And, yes, your galleries were a special treat. Vote.
Milan Vogrin08-Jun-2016 04:34
Beautiful! Thanks for your great presentation of this beautiful and less known country. V
pkocinski07-Jun-2016 10:44
Looking good behind the wheel of that car.
marie-jose wolff07-Jun-2016 09:20
Helen, thanks to you, we discovered a country with such a different culture.
I have enjoyed and I was fascinated your fabulous galleries. V
Pieter Bos07-Jun-2016 04:58
You gave SA a face for me, Helen! ~V
larose forest photos07-Jun-2016 00:30
Forgot to say, the video is great and as others have said, now you can say you drove there! I hadn't realized that women could drive on the US base.
larose forest photos07-Jun-2016 00:28
I can echo Lynn's comments entirely! It does not seem like three years. I was shocked when you said it had been that long. More like a year and a bit I thought. Shows you how time passes, and during that time you have shown us such an eye-opening view of SA. So much of interest, so many fascinating and marvelous and beautiful things to see. And not to be forgotten, Sahraa as the ambassador for all things dog. Kudos to her too. VV
Bill Miller06-Jun-2016 22:26
It is hard to believe it has been 3 years already. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.
LynnH06-Jun-2016 20:47
I remember your post from when you first arrived. You were concerned that you wouldn't get to take photos. Interestingly, as time went by, you got more and more comfortable (or many more sneaky) with photography. I remember when you went shopping for abayas so you'd have something proper to wear. :) And I laughed at the video... yes, you did drive. And you didn't get stoned. Luckily. Thank you for showing us the Kingdom and the other nearby Gulf States. Thank you for your educational narratives, I learned a lot. Wishing you safe travels!! V+
Colin Storey06-Jun-2016 19:41
A lovely image of you in your car.
I have really enjoyed all your fabulous images over the last three years.
Julie Oldfield06-Jun-2016 18:14
I truly enjoyed these galleries. You provided a fascinating glimpse into a very misunderstood and mysterious country. I am glad you got to drive! Have a very safe trip. V!!!
bill friedlander06-Jun-2016 17:35
Parting is such sweet sorrow, but the memories will linger for a lifetime. V
janescottcumming06-Jun-2016 17:12
You have educated all of us with your wonderful photos from your exotic adventure. I remember we saw you just before you left and you didn't sound thrilled about going there. I am happy it worked out well for you. You have taught me to be open to new experiences and the learn to embrace them. Have a great trip home! V
gerard belbeoch06-Jun-2016 16:37
bon retour vers washington,Thank you very much, Helen, for sharing all these images of a culture so different
danad06-Jun-2016 15:53
Thank you very much, Helen, for sharing all these images of a culture so different than our and for showing us all the aspects of life in the Kingdom.
All the best for your new life !
A.G. Arao / noyphoto06-Jun-2016 14:19
Nice shot of you in your nice Bimmer. The video was a good idea and is convincing proof that you drove a car in Saudi Arabia. ... Thank you for sharing with us your many fascinating photos of life there. I learned a lot from them. I am looking forward to the books that will eventually emerge from the three years you spent in that desert kingdom. ... Good luck with your next adventure. -V-
Suzanne Lanthier06-Jun-2016 14:11
Thank you for your generosity, Helen ! You have spent your impressions with us about a country which seemed a bit strange but your positive thinking was most welcomed. Have a safe trip back home and "à bientôt" !
Alexander Kazakov06-Jun-2016 12:48
Superb shot! And interesting part of life! V
Tom LeRoy06-Jun-2016 12:14
A great ending to your Saudi adventure! V
Stephanie06-Jun-2016 09:36
What a cute photo and video! Thank you for sharing life in SA with the rest of us! You have certainly opened our eyes to life in the Middle East ~ people are people; no matter where they come from! :) VVV
Ton, Ben & Rob Nagtegaal06-Jun-2016 06:12
Thanks for al the beautiful images Helen. V
Gerard Koehl06-Jun-2016 05:40
Merci Helen pour toutes ces belles photos prises tout au long de votre séjour en Arabie saoudite. Je me rapelle très bien quand vous avez quitté Budapest, et que vous appréhendiez ce nouveau séjour. Vous avez réussi à nous donner une autre vision de ce pays.. Je vous souhaite ainsi qu.à votre mari, un bon voyage de retour vers votre pays.
Amicalement,
Gérard
Gill Kopy06-Jun-2016 04:31
As she drives away into the sunset (well sort of). It's been an incredibly interesting 3 years for all of us who have followed along Helen - thank you !!!
Nirvan Hope06-Jun-2016 04:08
I've so enjoyed your photo commentary from Saudi Arabia - quite amazing you were able to show as much as you have, considering how you were told that photography was difficult! Safe travels back to the States.
Carl H. Johnson05-Jun-2016 23:48
One door closes another one opens!!!
Graeme05-Jun-2016 22:40
Bon voyage! Hope you both have a safe journey and looking forward to seeing your new surroundings, Helen.V
John Reynolds LRPS05-Jun-2016 21:48
I have enjoyed seeing Saudi through your camera lens. V.
Dan Greenberg05-Jun-2016 20:44
Your stay in SA has truly been an educational and rewarding experience for us all. Thanks again for the prolific work you did documenting the many fascinating aspects of life there.
Regine L.05-Jun-2016 19:51
There she goes. V
Thanks for the memories.
Patrick Goossens05-Jun-2016 19:05
This car fits you!
Claude Gagnon05-Jun-2016 18:45
Ouf, so interesting! Thanks to be there and share all this with us :))
Sam Rua05-Jun-2016 17:52
Safe travels back, Helen. You are too funny with that video.
Chris Morton05-Jun-2016 17:27
bon voyage
Jim Coffman05-Jun-2016 17:26
Now you can tell everyone you drove there!!
joseantonio05-Jun-2016 17:18
A short but interesting experience. thank you for sharing the video.V