My son-in-law's dad passed away last week. He never got a chance to meet his grandsons, which is so sad. Today SIL made a little fire to burn some of his dad's old papers. The boys kept asking what was going on, and he told them about ashes to ashes and dust to dust. They didn't understand, but I think it was important that they were involved. The weather was nice for once, and it was a relaxing family time.