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28-MAY-2003 Jason

Trying to stop my hands from shaking *

Oliwa Park, near Gdansk, Poland

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So this photo has no other purpose than to tell a personal story, besides the fact that it eeks in on the perspective challenge. I felt like sharing, please pardon the wordiness. I'm doing it just to compete with Traveller for the longest intro to a photo.
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This photo was taken about 10 minutes before I proposed to the girl in the photo, Magdalena. She's a brilliant biochemist/PharmD, beautiful in every way imaginable, and was terrifying to propose to. The park it was taken in is the gardens around the Oliwa Cathedral, where her parents were married. It was perfect, she had no clue I was going to pop the question. I was a nervous wreck. My thought process was looping, something like:

"Oh my God I can't do this...Yes, I can do this...She's smart and beautiful, what the heck would she want to marry me for?...What if she says no?...Oh my God I can't do this...oh hey, there's a beautiful vanishing point shot right there..."

The bench where I proposed is right down the row from the spot where she was standing. The birds sang, the sun shined, and for once in my life something romantic actually worked out just the way I'd planned. I'd completely and utterly surprised her, and she loved it. We were married at the Oliwa Cathedral in June the next year. So far, we're living happily ever after.

Canon EOS D30 ,Canon EF 28-90mm f/4-5.6 II USM
1/125s f/8.0 at 35.0mm iso800 hide exif
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Date/Time28-May-2003 04:36:48
MakeCanon
ModelEOS D30
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Focal Length35 mm
Exposure Time1/125 sec
Aperturef/8
ISO Equivalent800
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White Balance (-1)
Metering Modematrix (5)
JPEG Quality (6)
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Guest 20-Feb-2006 19:01
Cindy: how freaky would that be if I zoomed in on the picture 10 years later and saw my own aged face as the person walking the stroller? Rod Serling would be standing just out of view, saying something about pictures being windows, not only to our past but to our future...then the creepy music starts.
Canon DSLR Challenge20-Feb-2006 15:39
Wow! That is so special, and the pics including the link you posted to the wedding tell a story . . .first comes love, then comes marriage [now back to the original] here comes somebody with a baby carriage! :) heehee

Congrats Dr. Magdalena!

Take care of her Jason! Cindy
Guest 20-Feb-2006 15:31
Thanks everyone for the kind words. AJ- This is one of a series in our album, the second of which shows us on "our" bench where I proposed. I don't have permission from our wedding photographer to post those shots, but it looked very similar to this one that my mom snapped:

http://www.nightyear.net/gallery/Magda-and-Jasons-Wedding/A_OntheBench

Trav: Maggie was a US citizen by the time I met her. Her father came over to Canada then to the US during the Reagan era, when things were easier. They then changed immigration laws, basically making it so her mom *or* she could come over, but not both. Her mother ended up coming over to work in the States while Maggie stayed with her grandmother, aunts, and uncles for the next 7 years, with parents making short visits, separately, as often as they could afford. She was 14 by the time she was able to see both of her parents at the same time again. Her father passed away shortly after they were reunited, and she and her mom pretty much had to sell most of what they had to stay afloat. When I met her, she'd just finished struggling her way through her chem bachelor's at DePaul. To say she's a fighter wouldn't begin to describe it. As of next year she will be the first doctor in her family, finally finishing her PharmD here in Chicago. She's as amazing as her story is, and from time to time when we have little fights, I look back at the old pictures to remind myself of that.
Canon DSLR Challenge20-Feb-2006 14:28
I'm a sucker for photos and stories like yours. She stands connected with her parents' past at the portal of her own future. May the smooth path pictured be yours as well. Thanks for posting and sharing this moment. .. Lew
Guest 20-Feb-2006 13:09
What a sweet story! Thank you for sharing it -- I very much enjoyed reading about it! If this photo isn't in one of your wedding or engagement albums - it should be. Along, perhaps, with some text about the day.

Belated congratulations to you both.
elips20-Feb-2006 08:00
Lovely photo and lovely story, Jason! Thanks for sharing! ~Sharon
Canon DSLR Challenge20-Feb-2006 07:19
HeeHeeHee...very cool story! It wasn't longer than mine, but your story was better....lol. You're a smart and interesting guy, funny too, why wouldn't she marry you? So you did a Spousal Petition then, since you were married in Poland? I presume that the Embassy was good to you...no hassles. Does Poland allow for dirrect Consular filing of the Spousal Petition, or did the two of you have to wait that agony of waiting that soooooo many couples have to go through? In any case, Congratulations! Best Wishes, Traveller
Canon DSLR Challenge20-Feb-2006 06:22
Very sweet story. Congrats on getting up the nerve and I'm glad it turned out well.

Interesting effect the hump in the road has on the image; it adds a nice interestingness factor. :) ~ Lonnit