In Larry's Absence Photo Gallery by Bobby Johnson at pbase.com

In Larry's Absence

On January 18, 2008, Lawrence Austin Hendrix, Sr. departed this life, aged 84 years, 7 months, and 27 days.

Born in Lauderdale County, Alabama on May 25, 1923, 'Mister Larry' (as I came to call him) was one of the smartest men I have ever known. I am convinced beyond a shadow of a doubt that there was nothing on this earth this man could not do if he only put his mind to it.

Carpenter, Electrician, Plumber, Painter, Salesman, Musician, Singer, Farmer ... those are but a few of the many skills possessed by Mister Larry. In addition, he was husband of 61 years to his wife, Mary, who passed in March of 2006. As a result of their blessed union, there were three children ... Joseph, Nancy (my wife of 23+ years), and Dr. Lawrence Austin Hendrix, Jr.

He died peacefully in the home he built with his own two hands in the early 1960s. As you might imagine, there is not one square inch of this dwelling (or the surrounding acreage) that has gone untouched by either his hands or his feet.

The images that follow were taken during the few days following his death and are an attempt to illustrate the void that he leaves for his loving family and innumerable friends.

Charismatic, extroverted, brimming with self-confidence, and all the while bordering on braggadocio, he was described by one of his friends as 'the ultimate southern gentleman'. Gracious, engaging, and totally void of indecision, he was a man among men ... a true-to-life John Wayne.

I am a better man for having known him.

The Man	veteran	discover	reunion
remembrance	Pastor Edwin's List	link	honor
unused	fiftieth	gallery	time
vacant	undone	incomplete	wounded
remnants	silent	rust	stored
cover	needy	hoard	touch
wasted	sacrifice	dormant	cold
beginnings	influence	family	milestones
detached	dance	play	allegiance

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Kelly Brown		05-Feb-2013 18:58
This is an absolutely beautiful tribute Bobby. I wish I had known you before my Grandparents died...wow, this would have been so beautiful to have as tribute to them and a gift to myself and my family. Right now I'm even wondering if we could go back to the old farm, take pics and intermingle them with the few personal photos we have...to make a tribute to them that even our kids would have. I believe this a very unique gift that you have been given and you absolutely should share it! If you can sell these packages many families will be forever grateful, my friend. Well Done! Kelly Brown

Bobby Johnson		30-Jan-2008 12:00
Rodney, Thank you for your very positive comments. I hope that I have helped you in some small way dealing with your own grief. Bobby

Andrew Breckill		30-Jan-2008 11:07
You asked on DPR if there was a niche for this, I know not, but it would make a wonderful, thought provoking exhibition. I lost my father in 06 at the too young age of 66, sadly, wicked stepmom threw out all his possesions and photographs so I just have the memories.

Guest		30-Jan-2008 01:23
Bobby, I ran across your gallery just by chance. I found it very moving. My mother passed away just one year ago on January 26th 2007. Your photography as well as the commentary for each photo was very inspiring for me. Keep up the good work. -Rodney

Bobby Johnson		28-Jan-2008 05:35
Roberta, Thank you for your kind and inspiring words. As you can see, Mister Larry has left us with a lasting legacy ... honor God, love family, build friendships, and spend wisely ... and in that order.

roberta		28-Jan-2008 03:35
May God encourage you and your family with His promises. Your gallery is a moving tribute to your father-in-law.

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