Things might be similar, never exactly the same.
Generalizing is always a risk to miss some peculiarities.
What makes every little thing unique is the relationship we have with it.
This is my own cauliflower, because it had grown under my eyes, day after day in our kitchen garden, so it’s unique, the archetype of all cauliflowers....
It tasted especially good too.
As someone said, we kill the things we love ( big smile).