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02-FEB-2007 J.S.Nasche

James V. Nasche 3rd - 02/02/07

Maryland

Normally on a Friday, I would post a rather humorous “Freaky Friday Self Portrait”,
with perhaps an alien popping out of my head or with my chest ripped open showing
a mouse as a heart.
Something silly and light-hearted.

Today … at 5:50 this morning … my older brother Jim passed out of this world
after suffering a long and prolonged illness that wasted his life away.

This image is a combined photo showing my bother in the prime of his life
during the 70’s and a photograph taken just last year when he was diagnosed
with the disease that would eventually steal his life away. Jim was diagnosed
with Frontal Temporal Dementia, Lou Gehrig’s disease and Aphasia.

He was the most brilliant man I’ve ever known, and made his living as a top
Computer Programmer and Data Analyst for the military working at a secret military
base somewhere deep in the back woods of Maryland. He was fascinated by all things
of science, and as late as the year before in a phone conversation he told me that
he was going back to school to study to become a Micro Biologist and Geneticist.
He was a brilliant photographer; doing naturally what it took me years to develop
after hundreds of hours of study.

He’s left a huge bleeding hole in my life, and I will miss him horribly.

“Peace” at last brother Jim.


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Wm. Bates02-Jun-2007 04:29
John,
It HAS been a while since I have visited your galleries! So busy caught up in My own life that I missed this painful and sad part of yours. Please accept My humble condolences. I hope that time has helped to ease your sorrow, even though the pain from the loss of a loved one never truly goes away. If I could, I'd give you a warm hug right now. (soft and tender smile)

Wanda
Dave Beedon09-Feb-2007 06:37
As I get older I am reminded more and more that although life can be a wondrous thing, it can also be cruel. Why him? Why me? Why anyone? These are questions that can only be answered through one's vision of Why And How We Are Here. All we can do to honor those who have died is to maintain a memory of them. I'm sorry about your loss of a valued sibling.
John Lester05-Feb-2007 13:15
Sorry for your loss. I have not lost a sibling but both parents and my mother in law. It is always hard and a strong reminder of our own mortality.
Guest 03-Feb-2007 13:00
My condolences. I can relate to you as my father came down with the same condition and it also only took a year for the disease to take him from me. Sadly, this is one of many devastating diseases that to often remind us just how fragile and short, our lives are... respectfully, Jv
James Lundy03-Feb-2007 04:59
Nothing is more important than family. Nothing is more painful than the loss of one's family. John, from the bottom of my heart, my thoughts and prayers are with you man.