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Tears of A Warrior

Tony Seahorn is a highly decorated combat leader who also had the courage to talk honestly about combat, PTSD and the effect of both on his life since his service in Vietnam.

I was in Grad School at the University of Texas Health Science Center in the early ‘80s, courtesy of the US Army, when PTSD became a subject of concern for society, medical researchers and the media. Since I was in the right place for current medical academic research and had a vested interest in the subject, I read a great deal of what was being published at the time.

One article that helped to put the subject in front of America was the Dec. 14th, 1981 Newsweek Magazine special issue. The cover article was titled “What Vietnam Did to Us: A Combat Unit Relives the War and the Decade Since”. It was especially interesting to me because that unit was Charlie Co., 2/28th Inf. “Black Lions”. A book of the same name was published also. Many of these guys were clearly still having a great deal of trouble adjusting to life after the war zone and it was just the tip of the iceberg. Although I was happily married, with a successful career as an Army Nurse Corps officer, I could identify. When my wife and I announced our engagement in 1971, two of my best friends, who knew me well before I went to Vietnam, took her aside and suggested that she might want to wait a bit longer because they weren’t sure that “. . . Dave’s back to normal yet”. When she told me I just laughed, because they had seen me through some really rough times after my tour in Vietnam. Fortunately, she married me anyway.

There has been a great deal of change and somewhat greater acceptance of PTSD since those early days when it was unofficially called “Vietnam Syndrome”, as if we needed one more thing to feel inadequate about. Now it’s understood by professionals that any traumatic event, not just combat service, can trigger this response, but combat service increases the odds through the increased number of opportunities. Although resources are not nearly enough, there is more help out there than ever. The VA and local Vet Centers can be very helpful in counseling veterans. PTSD is a non-discriminating disabler – it doesn’t matter what your age, gender, marriage or educational status is. It also doesn’t matter where you saw service. Veterans from WWII and Korea are finally getting help, along with Vietnam and Gulf War vets, many of whom have had multiple deployments.

If you are a veteran who needs help – get it, no matter how young or old you are. Service officers from veteran's organizations can and will help to put you in touch with resources. Whether or not you are currently getting help, I strongly suggest that you read this book and give it to your loved ones to read. It won’t create a miracle, but it can help to increase understanding and help with the healing process. I’m proud to have a signed copy, and my wife has read it.

Contact Tony and Janet Seahorn: http://www.tearsofawarrior.com/



Book Review: Barnes & Noble
Returning war veterans may face a multitude of physical and mental challenges. Veterans' families are often unprepared to deal with a family member who may experience pain, nightmares, feelings of detachment, irritability, trouble concentrating, and sleeplessness. These are some of the symptoms of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

Experts estimate that between 25% and 30% of Vietnam veterans who fought in combat have symptoms of PTSD and the experiences associated with combat. It's been recently estimated that 30% of combat soldiers returning from service in Iraq and Afghanistan are experiencing similar trauma.

"Tears of a Warrior: A Family's Story of Combat and Living with PTSD" is a patriotic book written about soldiers who are called to duty in service of their country. It is a story of courage, valor, and life-long sacrifice. Long after the cries of battle have ended, many warriors return home to face a multitude of physical and mental challenges. Author Tony Seahorn writes from his experience as a young army officer in Vietnam who served with the Black Lions of the First Infantry Division, which fought in some of the bloodiest battles of the war. He was wounded in action and continues to recover from the physical and emotional scars of combat.

Tony returned to Wyoming from the war decorated for heroism. Some of his most honored medals include two Bronze Stars, two Purple Hearts, Air Medal for Valor in flight, the Vietnamese Gallantry Cross, and a Presidential Unit Citation. He has experienced the trauma of combat. His experience is painful. His story is real.

Janet Seahorn, Tony's wife and co-author, writes from both the perspective of a wife who has lived for thirty years with a veteran with PTSD, and as a professional in human development and neuroscience. Dr. Seahorn's research has focused on the effects PTSD has on the brain, body, and spirit.

"Tears of a Warrior" was written to educate families and veterans about the symptoms of PTSD and to offer strategies for living with the disorder. The book includes over 50 photos integrated into the text which provide the reader with a visual picture of the sequence of events as the storyline moves from the realities of combat, to returning home, to the ultimate impact on family and friends. Families and society in general will better understand the long-term effects of combat. Veterans from all wars, regardless of service branch, will benefit by the authors' experiences and their message of hope.

"If we send them, then we must mend them."


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steve samoheyl 17-Nov-2020 02:20
I was in Whiskey Battery, 1-12, 3rd. Mar. Div. July 1-Aug.21st. Then, went to Dong Ha
'til. Nov.2nd. 1967. Operation Buffalo with 3 KIA in Battery and one Joe Zsidlo July
25, 1967 mortar attack. Yes, I suffer from P.T.S.D. But V.A. denies I have had it and still
have anxiety attacks from time to time.
Steve Samoheyl
Vietnam, Con Thien 1967
date: 11-16-2020
Robert 22-Feb-2017 08:42
Not only did you not bore me, you inspired me. For you to survive all that trauma is something myself and most others would have never been able to endure. Hindsight regarding the politics of war is not very important. What is important is that those who swear oath to defend the US Constituion. These must be Patriots who simply respond to this ultimate call to serve, as this is the only way an effective Comstitutinal defense is possible. What mistakes, hubris or other character flaws politicians make has nothing whatsoever to do with our Patriots in the Armed Forces. A man's life is short, and my faith is that every Patriot's sacrifice will receive the ultimate reward, the gift of eternal life. What I know is that our Patriots who served in Vietnam took the road only a few had the courage to take. And from decades of study, I know our Patriots in Vietnam forced a determined adversary to retreat in virtually every major engagement. They did what they were asked, ordered or volunteered to do. They represented this Nation and defended our ideal of Liberty just as George Washington and every member of our armed forces have done. The only difference is the political limitations regarding the rules of engagement. For your battle scare, with your combat brethren, you share a unique fraternal bond that myself and most others will never share. Kipling's IF and Teddy Roosevelts The Arena speak to what only you and your combat veterans know. I was born in 1956, and my father is a WWII combat veteran. I want all our Patriots who served in Vietnam to know that there are those of us who look up to you and are humbled and inspired by your sacrifice! Even though we can't understand the horrors of combat, we are proud of those with the courage to take the road rarely traveled. Until I die, I consider you the best of my generation! My admiration for you is you stood alongside your American Patriot brothers, when there were ways to avoid the call or order to serve. That the times made this unpopular, for various reasons, most self interested, this fact only increases my admiration and respect for you.To support and defend, and be willing to die for and next to your brothers, yours is a complete life to always be proud of! Thanks is not enough for your sacrifice and suffering, but I hope my prayers, encouragement and support is a small token of respect for the best of my generation.
Priscilla 06-Nov-2016 02:40
Thank you for your service and the courage to tell your story. My cousin, a medic, died yesterday. He never said anything but he had those behaviors too. He was shot in the chest while rescuing someone and made it home but he wasn,t the same.
Guest 18-Feb-2014 19:02
I hide my PTSD for nearly 40 years until I could not any longer. I say that because I was beginning to have problems in every aspect of my life, family, friends, etc. My brother, I am one of four brothers, who by the way, all served in Vietnam at different times, gave me a list of symptoms for PTSD and he told me if you can put your name at the bottom of that list, you have it. Well, I could, so I went to seek help at the VA. I would like to tell you that was great, but it was not, I had to go thru the trauma again, mentally. I will admit that it has helped me to recognize things and deal with issues, but It is still there and will be until I go to my grave.
Sharpshooter Jim 27-Oct-2013 18:21
I have this book. After the 4th page, I was reading about me.
Guest 04-Aug-2013 14:26
Now everybody knows it was and is PTSD that was bothering us. I remember the media calling Nam combat vets as " walking time bombs". The article said it was only a matter of time until we went nuts and started hurting people. I remember how "understanding" everybody was. I came home through Oakland where we were advised not to wear our uniforms home. It seems that some G.I.s were targeted in airports for harassment. That was the start of finding out that nobody gave a s-hit about our experiences and we needed to keep our mouths shut about it. I did and went on about my life, getting a job, starting a family and kept everything inside. This worked for thirty years, even though the dreams came, along with flashbacks. Was told to ignore it, it would go away. Then I broke my back and spent a couple of months with too much idle time. I started remembering things I had forgotten, people who were killed and maimed. Getting overrun. And I lost it. Put a gun to my head one night, pulled the hammer back, finger on trigger, then before I could pull it The Lord made me put it down. The next day I went to a psychiatrist who fortunately had dealt with Nam vets for years. He said that vets had tried to ignore the signs for years, but actually the trauma was like a banked fire. Smouldering until suddenly bursting into flames. The Lord and my psychiatrist got me back on track, as much as possible. I still jump at unexpected loud noises, I will catch myself checking door locks three or four times( not remembering I had already checked them) which my Dr. said I was still checking the perimeter. I go in a darkened room and when I turn on the light, I will automatically close one eye to save my night vision. So on and so forth.
One more thing before I wrap up this tome to show one thing my brain kept hidden for thirty years. My second tour I was a door gunner, 173rd Assault Helicopter Co. Robin Hoods, based in Lai Khe. We were flying ash and trash one day and we had too many people wanting to go to Saigon, some going home and one going to Thailand to get married. My pilot and I decided I would wait at Lai Khe until they came back for me. I waited and waited and waited some more. Then I saw the Co. and First Sgt. come out of flight control, walking towards me. I knew then something had happened. My chopper and crew had crashed and burned, killing everyone on board. You combat vets know the closeness you feel to your mates in combat and I felt like my brothers had been killed, without me. Whatever happened to your crew was supposed to happen to all. I should have been on board and could have prevented their deaths, felt that way then, feel that way today, or at least I would have been with them. My point being that I didn't remember this until I broke my back and had too much idle time. THIRTY YEARS my brain hid this.
Got to close, hope I didn't bore anyone.
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