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The Kindness of Strangers...
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01-MAY-2004

May 1, 2004

The Kindness of Strangers...

...and friends...

Well on this very busy weekend for me, I took a bike ride, planning for a short 2 hour, 18 mile ride. Lots of hills. Afterwards was to be the Town and Gown Concert; tomorrow, the usual Sunday services and a solo on the psalm. Then back to the church for a First Communion Class photo and then off to a choir member's 20th anniversary party. Just about everything is out, but the class photo. Coming down one of those hills at a modest 20mph, with a very slight curve, something happened to the front tire--I think it got pinched and popped. The bike went down on my right side, the rear wheels heading for the front. I watched the side of the paved trail whiz by and the ground get closer. Ugh!! Then I noticed the "guardrail" a telephone pole sized chunk of rough wood, horizontal and my face heading towards it. I did what I could to arch my back out of the way. I can't say I exactly remember impact, or too much pain. The adrenalin had probably already been released by my panicked brain.

I got up and gathered my bike to get off the trail. I saw plenty of blood and thought, not too big a deal, head wounds always bleed a lot. Dab it. I was at one of many entrance/exits to this trail so I headed to the nearby houses and rang the bell on the first pleasant looking home. I saw someone inside, so thought it the best place to go to rinse off the blood on my knee and chin. (Outside, of course.) Ray was friendly and helpful. He looked in his cars for his first aid kit. No luck. Boy did the knee wound burn as I rinsed all that sweat off! Ray offered to take me over to the hospital only a few miles away. My knee felt a little funny, maybe just swelling, so I decided it was a good idea. And the wound looked rather deep. Then I got faint. The thought that this might be more serious than just some scrapes and abrasions was to blame, I think. I recovered after directing my attention to the probably pointless task of locking my bike up on his porch.

He dropped me off, parked, came in and gave me his name, number and address so I could call him to pick me up afterwards. !! I very much appreciated his help. He was calm, polite and reassuring. (I was calm, I think, though a bit dizzy, I suppose.) Thank you Ray, very much. It's nice to be able to count on people you don't even know.

At the ER they checked me out. And let me know that my chin was the big issue. Apparently I had a good-sized divit (sp?) out of it. The doctor was a bit concerned, for the chin and for possible internal injuries. "Get his clothes off!! All of them." No internal injuries. After the physician's assistant (nurse?) had cleaned the wounds the doctor was pleased to see the divit was hanging on, by a chad? :) Seventeen very fine stitches later she was very pleased with her work. They couldn't stitch up the knee, nothing to stitch. It will be a pretty scar. No broken bones.

I don't have anyone in the city's number memorized nor do I have a cell phone. Fortunately before leaving for the ride I had called Sonia, one of the choir directors about the class photo, and I remembered her number. She gave me another choir member's number and I called her to explain that I would probably miss the concert. Both offered to pick me up. Lynn, was singing though and so Sonia made it out. We picked up my bike from Ray, she took me home. She also made some chocolate pudding which was great since I hadn't eaten in about 7 hours. Then we made a trip to the supermarket for some first aid materials. The prescription will have to wait, as I can't find the new card!! Thank you Sonia for hauling me around and waiting while I looked through piles of junk for the card.

Now Sonia and Lynn have offered me a ride over to the church for tomorrow afternoon's photo. I wonder how well I'll be walking. I won't be singing. I asked the doctor if I would be able to sing tonight's concert and she asked: "Could you sing before this?" Oh so funny in the middle of suturing me. And I couldn't laugh! She said singing shouldn't be a problem, but a doctor in the choir, who knows what's involved in singing, said no. Let the sutures sit. So I have tomorrow morning off.

Now to take an awfully painful shower and rinse all the dried perspiration off, past all the abrasions, etc. Chin has to stay pretty dry. The doc was telling me that someone will have to wash my hair like so...There isn't anyone! (Is this too much detail?)

I wish I could post a better photo illustrating the help I received today. But I didn't bring my camera for once. What pictures I might have had!! I kept saying I wish I had my camera.

Thank you all.

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Guest 02-Jun-2004 15:09
That's on hell of a story! What a ride Mark, sorry I am a month late in seeing/reading this! I am glad you're recovering well!! WOW - my bike photos must have brought back some nightmares huh?
Guest 07-May-2004 14:43
Mark! I'm really sorry to hear about this (and I apologize for getting here so late too!)! I've been involved in a bicycle accident (4 yrs ago now) and it is an awful thing to go through. I totally tore my ACL in my left knee and the interior (?) ligament...and some cartlidge damage. I thought my knee was broke. Having no ACL anymore is not fun...but neither is surgery to repair it. Feel better soon...
Chris Brooker05-May-2004 12:42
I'm so sorry that I have not read this before now.
You poor old chap. I wish you well.
Guest 05-May-2004 02:27
Oh God, Mark, what a nightmare!! I feel so badly for you! I hope you start feeling better soon, and the wounds heal.. SO very comforting to know that you found kindness in a stranger!!
brother_mark05-May-2004 02:21
Thank you Zack. What do you mean when he gets home? It's late for him to out, isn't it?
karen your sister 05-May-2004 02:16
sorry about your boo boo. When zack gets home he will sing you the boo boo song.it goes like this. sorry that your got a little boo boo...sorry that it hurt you really bad...sorry that you got a little boo boo...let me kiss it and you won't be sad.
Sher Hogue04-May-2004 23:09
oh Mark!..big, big hugs to you...so glad you weren't hurt worse! hope you continue to heal and feel better every day. :)
Guest 03-May-2004 19:23
Wow! I really hope you feel better and the damage wasn't more substantial. The cell phone might be a smart thing. Getting the free long distance helps with our phone bills. Be glad you didn't have the camera with you. It might of ended up like the bike...

Rob
virginiacoastline03-May-2004 14:22
What kind of a PaDr are you!?!?! NO CAMERA!!! (Just Kididng!!) So glad you were not hurt worse . . .I'm sure you wished you could find that script for the pain-killer/anti-inflamatory tho, huh. You MUST do a self with the stitches . . and don't ever forget your camera again young man! (kidding!!) And THANK you to Ray for taking good care of our Marky =)
Guest 03-May-2004 09:37
Oh, poor you!! I hope that by now, you're feeling much better? Do you know what I think one of the best things is about the story? The wonderful woman who made you chocolate pudding!!! She KNOWS how to handle a crisis!

Seriously, though, I hope you're not shaken up, anymore, and that you're recovering.
brother_mark03-May-2004 01:48
Thanks for your well wishes, everyone. I could hardly bear to bend my knee today, but made it through the photo and a few individual photos afterwards. I have a first aid kit for hiking. Too big to carry on a ride. I'm not sure what the essentials are or what I could have done if I had them.

Cell phone? Maybe. I'll look into the emergency variety.

Very nice Jeanne. I was a bit humorous in the ER too. Fortunately, it was fairly minor. I could have been unconscious...Tonight Dr. Jim came over to take a look and said it should all heal fine and gave me better instructions on wound care. Now I have ointment on them. I hope taking off the dressings is easier tomorrow. Did I mention I sleep in a loft? Not for this week!!
Susie 03-May-2004 01:24
Mark, I hope you are feeling better soon. I'm sure you are sore today. Yesterday we (Karen, Maureen, your mother and I) were all talking about you and how you tricked all of us with your April Fool's Day photo and how we hope you get that job. I guess you were in too much pain to feel your ears burning! You are very dedicated to post a photo after all of that!
Jill02-May-2004 23:13
Sending you well wishes Mark. Hope you are doing ok.
Guest 02-May-2004 17:01
Mark, this story has me LAUGHING OUT LOUD! I don't know why, it's not that funny, maybe it's your dry humor telling it? I'm glad you are ok, and isn't it encouraging to meet people who will help a stranger! Renews faith in humans!! Hope you feel better today!!
Guest 02-May-2004 15:01
Oh Mark... I'm so sorry sweetie. It sounds terrible! And after all your hard work to not get to sing... you must be dissappointed! But I'm glad it was not worse and that you were able to receive the help of Strangers and Friends. I'll say a little get well quick prayer for you! You also are hereby awarded the PAD Award of Dedication for your ability to take and post a shot today!
Linda Alstead02-May-2004 12:47
oh Mark - that's terrible - get better soon!
northstar3702-May-2004 09:18
Sounds very sore!
Si Kirk02-May-2004 07:07
glad to see you are okay, morale of the day, allways carry a first aid kit, survival tools and your camera!, my trail pack allways has these on board, in winter i even pack a small thermos.
jypsee02-May-2004 05:06
Well, I'm glad you're not more injured and hope you get the hair washing figured out. I'm still astounded that you can ride a bike 18 miles....
Guest 02-May-2004 05:04
Hey Mark! Glad you are OK! Sounds like it was a good idea to head to the ER... do you have any advil or Motrin around? That will help reduce the inflammation and pain.... Oh yeah nice photo of the brand new first aid materials....!
Lara S02-May-2004 04:31
Witty doctor.Err, did you get her phone number? wink wink.
Lara S02-May-2004 04:30
Dude. Honestly, you really MUST get yourself a cell phone. What is it about you that you don't have one? Join this century already :) Glad you are ok though.
Robin Reid02-May-2004 04:21
Oh Mark, that is a helluva story. I am amazed that you had the wherewithal to get this sharp photo to commemorate you injuries. The crack about singing is a hoot, and sounds like you learned once again that people really really do reach out and support. Best wishes on your recoverey.