This Bosnian soldier lost his leg to a mortar at Srebrenica. He had been brought to Tuzla by the Brits. His wife and kids were also in Tuzla, but he was afraid to contact them because he'd lost his leg. "I'm just not ready to deal with that," he said to me. He was having pains in the missing leg, phantom pains they are called, and he said it was strangely disturbing.