photo sharing and upload picture albums photo forums search pictures popular photos photography help login
Patricia Lay-Dorsey | all galleries >> my photo-a-day archives >> 2008 photo-a-day galleries >> photo-a-day January 2008 > more winter nudes
previous | next
30-JAN-2008

more winter nudes

I now have nine images in my "Winter Nudes" gallery. CLICK HERE to see them.

And I thought "Facing Up to My Face at 65" was an emotional series to photograph and post. How could I have known what I'd be doing five months later? Actually, I couldn't have imagined this even a week ago. I mean the idea of taking and putting up nude photos of myself and my friends would never have occurred to me. But I didn't know then what I know now: This work is NEEDED in today's world! How else can we counter our culture's insistence that the only beautiful flesh is firm, taut, thin and young. Well, guess what? There are billions of us out there who will never again be firm, taut, thin and/or young. So what are WE supposed to do? Cover ourselves in shame? Diet ourselves sick? Use all our money to buy the bodies we want from "cosmetic surgeons"? Ply ourselves with pills to take away our appetites? Work out at the gym for hours every day? Give up and become couch potatoes? Or can we learn to embrace our bodies as they are, to celebrate all our curves, even those we wish we didn't have. ESPECIALLY those.

For me personally this series is profoundly life-changing...and I've only been at it for four days! But it's the last two that have been getting under my skin, the days that I've been taking and posting nude self portraits. Yikes. What would my proper southern mother say??? Good thing she isn't around to see this. She always knew I marched to a different drummer, but I'm not sure there's even a drummer in front of me this time!

OK, so that's my little girl speaking, but my old-lady self? She's cackling with delight! And that 65 year-old crone is being revitalized. For too many years, whenever I thought about my body it was only in relation to the disability, or maybe the swimming and exercising at the gym. But my body as a sensual object? Hadn't considered that in a very long time. Now when I take these self portraits, that's exactly what I'm feeling...my sensuality. And it feels darn good. Your responses feel good too. Women & men, old & young, sending public comments & private messages. In every case you are letting me know this work is important, that it's changing your attitudes about your own and others' bodies. That's all I need to know.

Canon EOS 40D
1/4s f/2.8 at 17.0mm iso800 full exif

other sizes: small medium large original auto
share
Carole Stevens25-Feb-2008 11:56
You are amazing, these words are so beautiful and so are you, your words are so emotive and so true, if we could love ourselves the way we are it would change the world.
Youve started that change!
This ia another gorgeous image!
Big Vote!
mathilda williams05-Feb-2008 23:24
lovely image of a real woman's body :)
mathilda
Guest 30-Jan-2008 19:51
Well said and well done, for someone like me that avoids looking in the mirror, there is hope..v
Ann...30-Jan-2008 19:37
Beautiful.......send me some courage Patricia!!!!
BleuEvanescence30-Jan-2008 18:46
Patricia i think you are beautiful in every ways. This image is peaceful.
To echo what you wrote here above, indeed, this will contribute in "changing" the attitude about our own perceptions of the human body. Years ago David Suzuki did the same thing for, i think, similar reasons (i could be wrong). It probably took you a small(or bigger) dose of courage but the end result is wonderful. You know, all it takes, and all it always took was the courage of ONE PERSON AT A TIME to change the world. One person at a time...that is all that is needed... to make this place, our world, a better place to live life. Thank you.
royalld30-Jan-2008 18:21
Beautiful light and wonderfully worded.
Guest 30-Jan-2008 17:43
Yes I love how simple this is with the window in the background. It seems so natural.
V.
SRW30-Jan-2008 17:09
The best so far... -- the light (especially on the hand) is amazing...!
M Williamson Lebon30-Jan-2008 16:20
Great!!! V
PauloCGama30-Jan-2008 13:53
great mood! love the light.
cheers
daanstringer.com30-Jan-2008 11:39
very good!
Guest 30-Jan-2008 09:52
excellent compo,love your story ,I think your proper mother is smiling.
Paco López30-Jan-2008 07:20
Great work!!!! I love the light here. V!
Peter Stubley30-Jan-2008 04:33
Beautifully lit. Nice work.
Type your message and click Add Comment
It is best to login or register first but you may post as a guest.
Enter an optional name and contact email address. Name
Name Email
help private comment