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A Non Naturist Mother Needs Our Help!
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I 'm writing to you expecting for your own comments regarding a situation in my own life involving nudity. (Poll your buddies, if you need also, I 'm joyful to have greater than one person's opinions.)
I 'm trying to discover whether my view on a situation must be examined.
Household Nudism And Behaviour Etiquette
We recently received an e-mail that we feel would be interesting to share. She's searching for insight and views so please ensure that you leave comments with this site and never on Facebook (so she can see what folks think).
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I 'm writing to you trusting for the input seeing a scenario in my own life involving nudity. (Poll your buddies, if you want also, I 'm happy to have greater than one man's opinions.)
I am trying to discover whether my outlook on a scenario needs to be analyzed. I also would like to get a feel if my beliefs and feelings are due to my being almost entirely living and socializing in a cloth surroundings.
This can be the situation.
Due to many awful circumstances in my life previously year or so, I 've become displaced. I've a 12 year old son that is now residing with my sister, which was my pick and I made it to be able to supply him with a safer and more stable living situation than I can presently supply (as I've been staying with friends within their little flat).
I recall seeing my mother naked on occasion, but not my dad (and I 'd two sisters, but no brothers). I never thought about it much, but raised my two sons and daughters in precisely the same manner since I never was comfortable just walking around the home entirely nude. Having said that, http://www.melindabarry.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=x-officer.com have been casual, yet private, about being nude in front of them.
I never told them that it was unacceptable to be bare around the home. I 've told them that the human anatomy is natural and amazing, but mostly it was not something I ever thought much about. The other day he was seeing, and he wanted to change clothing, and requested me to leave the room. I lightheartedly disregarded his excessively humble request, and told him that I 'd look the other way if he wanted me to, and I did. He was fine with that.
I view it as an individual selection. I was told the first time I ever came with their house, they have a clothing optional dwelling. No biggie. The wife is more likely than husband to walk around totally nude. The husband has children from a previous marriage, and their policy has been that to avoid problems which could be caused by his ex wife. When his kids are visiting, the wife will wear at least a tank top and panties when in view of his kids. When my son has come to see, the policy has been the same.
This couple is purchasing a large house. A couple of months ago they encouraged myself and my son to live there with them too and for as long as I wanted / desired. That was amazing and generous and I have been really looking forward to being with my son again after a year of living apart.
I was really surprised, as I 'd presumed that the current policy regarding nudity around kids would continue. That is what I was used to and hadn't thought about things potentially being different. I spoke to the husband alone and he presumed the same. It was clear at that point, that t here was a communication breakdown and that they had to work out between the two of them what their policy was going to be.
After they discussed, the wife said that she never believed that straightforward nudity would be an problem for me or my son. Having said that, now that she's aware of them, she said that while she would like to assure that she'dn't be naked around him. She didn't feel comfortable to guarantee that she wouldn't forget to put on minimal clothing when he was around. To be clear, she said she would try and remember, but that she couldn't assure. She didn't want to promise something unless she knew she could do it. She said that there have been times, she'd almost walked out of her bedroom nude when her husband's kids were visiting. Her husband quickly reminded her to cover up and she did.
Since that dialog, I've been researching the naturist and naturist lifestyles. I 've been reading opinions and whatever I could locate on the internet to help me better comprehend the scenario. It's led me to you.
I could likely find myself in family court for custody problems over this and I'd like to get more information before I make any choice.
The issues that I 'm having trouble understanding are as follows:
The idea that someone could somehow "forget" to put on clothing is incredibly foreign in my experience. Is this something that some naturists have experienced previously?
I have concerns about how challenging it would be for my son to adapt into a clothing optional environment at his age (puberty).
Does it make a difference that it would not be his mother who would be naked, but an unrelated adult woman whom he hasn't spent a lot of time with?
I 'm surprised that she didn't imagine that it would have repercussions for me or my son - Is this common on the list of naturist community?
I need perspective and do not understand how much my concerns are due to my textile life expertise. Any comments, thoughts, or opinions would be very, very much valued. http://gomcfc.com/__media__/js/netsoltrademark.php?d=wildnudists.com 'm trusting that your experiences would be helpful in my experience in some way.
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