There are more and more people talking about adult dating today. Depending on who you speak to it runs the gamut of fraud to dating heaven. Each individual on one of the sites will have a different outcome based solely on their approach.

There are three main concerns when joining:

More Men than Women

This is just just how it is. A guy must come to terms with this or they will find themselves ready to quit before they've even started. They must learn how to make this work for them and not against them.

For women, it could not be fair, but they get to sit back and weed through their potential suitors. Their message box will be jam packed before a man can figure out what picture to put on.

Cam Girls

This is a significant problem within an adult community. Cam girls can be very sneaky. They know how to run their business through every channel - the latest avenue being adult dating. According to some companies they are extremely difficult to reduce completely...similar to ants. But it's hard to figure out why this is such a problem to the buyer. If someone, anyone online asks you for the money; think back again to the 80's and 'just say no.'

Like the majority of things in life, whether it's too good to be true it probably is.

Hard to Meet Women

So many complaints relating to this with such little attempts at fixing it. Once we covered earlier women reach sit back and decide with a click of these finger who they would like to communicate/meet with. On adult internet dating sites men should be the aggressors. Can live cam girls blame a woman for not attempting to reply back to a, 'hi, want 2 chat?' message when there may be others that contain more than what a grade school child would write?

Men, you need to make her desire to meet you. You must stand out. Be unique. To do this you must give her a little something; whether it's humor or perhaps a comment in what she wrote on her profile.

The main step is looking like you are making a genuine attempt.

Emily Grace works as a writer, blogger and sex therapist. He work can be seen around the country.