After the dinner was dancing and the "first" dance was the bride and groom along with many, many children doing the Hokey Pokey, followed by "the chicken dance" and "YMCA." As the music man introduced the chicken dance he said, with more than a touch of wonder, amazement and awe, "I've been doing weddings for 40 years and I've NEVER seen a first dance like this --- and I've seen them all."