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25-JUN-2010 Karen Stuebing

A Man Hears what He Wants to Hear

West Virginia

This gallery has been a tribute to Victor Williams (February 17,1954 - April 15, 2011). Every song has relevance even if it isn't obvious.

I will end with this song which was his "theme" song as it told the story of his life with uncanny accuracy. He chose college on the GI Bill and a professional career over a contract with Angelo Dundee. But he will always be a legend in Boone Co, WV.

Goodbye. You were my soul mate even if you were as hard headed as me.

Paul Eddie told me that when he found you, you had one leg cocked like you were trying to get up. To the end, buddy, to the end. It was the only fight you didn't win.





The Boxer
Simon and Garfunkel

I am just a poor boy
Though my story's seldom told
I have squandered my resistance
For a pocket full of mumbles
Such are promises
All lies and jests
Still a man hears what he wants to hear
And disregards the rest

When I left my home and my family
I was no more than a boy
In the company of strangers
In the quiet of the railway station
Running scared, laying low
Seeking out the poor quarters
Where the ragged people go
Looking for the places only they would know

Lie la lie ...

Asking only workman's wages
I come looking for a job
But I get no offers,
Just a come-on from the whores on Seventh Avenue
I do declare, there were times when I was so lonesome
I took some comfort there

Lie la lie ...

Then I'm laying out my winter clothes
And wishing I was gone
Going home
Where the New York City winters aren't bleeding me
Bleeding me
Going home

Now the years are rolling by me
They are rocking evenly
I am older than I once was
And younger than I'll be
And that's not unusual.
No it isn't strange
After changes upon changes
We are more or less the same
After changes we are more or less the same

In the clearing stands a boxer
And a fighter by his trade
And he carries the reminders
Of every glove that layed him down
Or cut him till he cried out
In his anger and his shame
"I am leaving, I am leaving"
But the fighter still remains

Lie la lie ...

Other Affairs of the Heart can be seen here.

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Helen Betts20-Aug-2012 16:20
A very touching tribute to your friend, who passed far too young. I'm so very sorry for your loss. V.
Carol How02-Apr-2012 02:38
Oh my gosh, I am very sorry for your loss! The image is so very warm and intimate! BV
Brenda04-Mar-2012 14:24
What a wonderful tribute to a wonderful friend...So sorry for your loss...many hugs for you. V
Mike H.04-Mar-2012 00:04
A very touching image here -- and tribute to Victor. Beautiful.
Mieke WA Minkjan02-Mar-2012 06:08
a beautiful homage to Victor!
Patricia Kay01-Mar-2012 19:30
A wonderful image and heartfelt song Karen...So sorry for your loss...BV
bill friedlander01-Mar-2012 18:33
An excellent portrait and heart felt tribute to a gentle man. V
Tom LeRoy01-Mar-2012 18:12
A gallery full of feeling and memory, so lovingly put together. A wonderful tribute to Victor. V
marko gregoric01-Mar-2012 17:50
Very, very good portrait. V
Sandi Marasco01-Mar-2012 16:25
What a touching collection of images and songs. Such a fine tribute. I hope this has been a chance to heal a little from your loss. Cyberspace Hugs!!!
Bryan Murahashi01-Mar-2012 15:36
A wonderful tribute portrait for your good friend, Karen.
January Grey01-Mar-2012 09:28
a wonderful tribute to a gentle soul. Beautiful photo. The dog whispers its devotion. V~
borisalex01-Mar-2012 05:13
A song often heart, has now a real meaning to me...because of your work about your friend and to his tribute! Thanks so much for sharing..! V.
Carl Carbone01-Mar-2012 04:00
Jane said it so well. A wonderful tribute image. Peace be with you.
Laryl01-Mar-2012 03:30
fabulous tribute, love this image
janescottcumming01-Mar-2012 03:19
Victor appeared to have a gentle touch. You can't fool a dog. I am so sorry for your loss. You have put together a beautiful tribute with this gallery. I hope that it has given you some comfort to create this loving memory. V
Yvonne01-Mar-2012 01:59
Dogs always seem to favour men, and you can see the bonding here, a wonderful shot Karen.
John King01-Mar-2012 01:40
A superb portrait in this photo and in the whole series. A heartfelt and touching tribute. V++
Richard Vance01-Mar-2012 01:13
Too young to leave so much love behind. Wonderful portrait.
Best to you, my friend,
Dick:)
Frank Brault01-Mar-2012 01:03
A marvelous tribute and photo. V
joanteno01-Mar-2012 00:02
Great tribute. Thank you
Buz Kiefer29-Feb-2012 23:48
Powerful words and image. Heartfelt and poignant. Just beautiful. Vote.
Coleen Perilloux Landry29-Feb-2012 23:38
Wonderful tribute and great photo.
Sheila29-Feb-2012 23:15
You have made a wonderful month long tribute to your friend. He has such a kind look about him. This is a loving portrait.
Jean Chiasson29-Feb-2012 22:59
Very cute image karen big vote
LynnH29-Feb-2012 22:49
Dogs always know who the good guy really is... V
Mairéad29-Feb-2012 22:39
A very tender portrait and great tribute to a man who died too young. V
laine29-Feb-2012 22:36
What a great tribute you made throughout the month...I'm sure your memories are something you will treasure for a long time to come.
larose forest photos29-Feb-2012 22:23
This is so very touching. A fine, fine tribute to someone who sounds like he was a winner to the end. I am so, so, so sorry he has gone.
V
Stephanie29-Feb-2012 22:06
What a wonderful tribute to the man you loved. Beautiful portrait! V
Walter Otto Koenig29-Feb-2012 21:57
A strong affectionate portrait to end the challenge. A wonderful tribute to a lost friend. "V"
Alan K29-Feb-2012 21:45
A very poignant and affectionate shot of a moment of shared friendship.
Roe..29-Feb-2012 21:45
I'm sitting here with tears rolling down my face..wishing I could give you a hug..xo