I have officially entered the 21st century as a pastor! -- I performed a wedding last Saturday for a couple that met on eHarmony. It was interesting trying to do a counseling session, the questions were different. Their ages are 42 and 44 and as we began talking, they assured me they had discussed every issue possible that might come up in their marriage. When I asked how they would merge their families and care for their parents they got a blank stare on their faces. The woman said, "Well I guess we didn't talk about that." I wonder if the issue isn't included on the list of the eHarmony suggested questions.

John