Our reason for going to Chicago was to attend my cousin's daughter's Bat Mitzvah and to see all of my cousins and uncle who had come from all around Canada and the U.S.(I had not seen them for close to 50 years).As we walked up to the gathering for the Sat. nite celebration, held at the Chicago Botanical Gardens for Lanie, I was gazing across the crowd to see if I could spot any of my long lost relatives.