When I child gets sick all the attention goes to his little being, the family, the friends, the doctors, the social workers; everyone concentrates on the wellbeing of the most vulnerable one. The only drawback is that some of the other children feel neglected and ignored. Sebastian use to be daddy's favorite, after his little brother was diagnosed with cancer everything changed dramatically; his father left for good unable to cope with he pain, his mother spends her time between her 2 jobs and the hospital leaving Sebastian and the other siblings by themselves. I talked to this vivacious and mischievous little boy for a long time, he kept on assuring me that he loves his little brother but could not help to resent him for " driving my papi away ", everything is about Pablito now he told me; when I asked him why he was getting in so much trouble he replied " Is the only time when my mom notices me"