17-Apr-2020
Wisteria day...
“There is much to be said for cherry blossoms, but they seem so flighty.
They are so quick to run off and leave you.
And then, just when your regrets are the strongest, the wisteria comes into bloom, and it blooms on into the summer.
There is nothing quite like it.
Even the colour is somehow companionable and inviting.”
Our pergola, covered with wisteria, is one of my favourite places in the warm season.
It has started blossoming in these days and it's like a ritual meeting with a silent friend, who comes back every year, with no fixed day.
I know that the little wonder will happen, I can guess more or less when, but there is always that pinch of surprise and expectation, which makes me check hopefully every morning the dimension of the clusters of violet flowers, here we are, they are in blossom…nearly, maybe tomorrow...
And the day has come.
16-Apr-2020
Farewell, Luis Sepúlveda…
The insensitive Covid-19 took life away from Chilean writer Luis Sepúlveda.
He died only a few hours ago in Oviedo, Spain, after fighting for six weeks against the virus, that he caught probably during a trip to a literary festival in Portugal.
I called the virus "insensitive", because I think it's wrong to call a virus "cruel". Illnesses have no feelings, obviously.
Luis Sepúlveda had deep feelings and every person, who has read at least one of his books, has surely perceived them through his prose.
I'd like to remember Luis Sepúlveda with this picture I quickly composed, as my humble tribute, inspired to one of his novels,
"The Story of A Seagull and The Cat Who Taught Her To Fly".
It might be considered a book for children, but, as in other similar cases, it can be inspirational for adults.
It's a tale about love, friendship, commitment and honour.
It is also about learning to believe in yourself.
A Cat, a Seagull, an impossible task…Caught up in an oil spill, a dying seagull scrambles ashore to lay her final egg and lands on a balcony, where she meets Zorba, a big black cat from the port of Hamburg. The cat promises the seagull to look after the egg, not to eat the chick once it’s hatched and – most difficult of all – to teach the baby gull to fly.
15-Apr-2020
Good Morning!
I used to love night best but the older I get the more treasures and hope and joy I find in mornings.
With the new day come new strength and new thoughts.
And if they don't come immediately, we have now all the necessary time to find them.
Learning a different use of time is another good side of self-isolation.
I don't know exactly how or why, but I never feel bored in these days (although I'm rarely bored also under normal circumstances, I must say) and I'm spending more time perusing the photos of my fellow amateur photographers on PBase.
A rewarding activity, which I had neglected in the past months, when I was too absorbed by other things.
Besides that I have also had the chance to get in touch in a rather more personal way with some Pbasers, and I have found out that they are pleasant and interesting people.
Human relationships need attention and consistency to be developed and it's always a slow and gradual procedure, which often enriches us deeply.
I have never believed in sudden friendship, without solid basis.
In my opinion it must be built up, little brick after little brick, it takes time and engagement.
When we make a sincere effort to communicate, which is not only speaking of ourselves, but is, mainly, listening to the other people, we realize that we have really gained something precious.
14-Apr-2020
Positive thinking ...
Positive thinking will let us do everything better than negative thinking will.
Of course trying hard to be positive doesn't mean to underestimate certain risks and the objective gravity of the situation we are all going through.
It simply means not allowing them to prevent us from perceiving what can make us feel better.
Often little things can have an uplifting impact on our mood.
Observing the beauty of nature, although we cannot do many outdoor activities, is always source of serenity.
We have more time to think over and to learn to be well with ourselves.
Maybe we are not as free as a bird now, but our imagination is still unchained.
I will start to find relatively good sides in this necessary self-isolation.
Of course I have already mentioned the silence, which enhanced the natural sound, so I won't repeat it.
But there are also more practical and less poetic good sides…
For instance burglars, thieves and purse-snatcher are unemployed.
Streets are nearly empty and houses are constantly occupied.
The nightmare of robbers is here.
13-Apr-2020
Superheroes grow super-vegetables…
It's a matter of fact that, when a superhero takes care of a kitchen garden, it's impossible to get starved.
I feel almost morally guilty, thinking of all the people who are struggling in this moment, because of this awful epidemic.
For telling the truth I'm living this self-isolation quite serenely.
And it's all thanks to my personal superhero, of course.
Our garden is generous and it has started offering us tasty daily gift. My superhero dedicates time and engagement to everything he has carefully planted, and this year it seems that vegetables are particularly big.
This cauliflower has a remarkable dimension and, in the meanwhile, we have just collected other four ones.
I have my tasks, as it's right, and one of them is freezing our overdose of vegetables for winter time. We are also giving a part of them to our nice neighbours (keeping social distancing, ça va sans dire…).
I'd be glad to share all our fresh and strictly biologic vegetables with you as well, but, alas, I can do it only virtually…
12-Apr-2020
Let's play Easter egg and rabbit hunt…
My way to wish a Happy Easter to all the kind visitors of this gallery is inviting you to play a virtual Easter egg and rabbit hunt in my garden.
I have hidden here for you 11 rabbits and 11 eggs.
If you cannot find all of them...
I deeply hope that my unpretentious game will bring a smile to all of you.
It doesn't matter if we grew up, what is important is that we have not become boring adults, but we can still listen, every now and then, to the voice of the child who still live inside us.
Thank you for keeping me company with your messages and comments.
There are not only negative sides in the hard times we are all going through.
11-Apr-2020
Much more precious than Chinese porcelain…
I had no idea that I owned a vase much more precious than Bohemian crystal,
more valued than Chinese porcelain…
Times change and strange things may happen.
I would have never imagined that in many countries people would have considered lack of toilet paper almost more dramatic than lack of certain kinds of food.
Then I have seen quite troubling videos of people fighting to seize all the packages of toilet paper that they could, and an Australian friend of mine confirmed that it was not an isolated episode.
I'm aware that, under difficult circumstances, people can react in a frantic way. I would understand if, expecting even worse times, they would try to stock basic food, water, medicines. It would be a normal reaction of self-defence against possible futures serious penuries, but toilet paper…Come on!
Well, don't misunderstand me. I know the use of it and I also know that it's strictly connected with natural functions…err…that we cannot suppress. But it's not so terribly fundamental, if we have a shower and some soap.
Of course it's not easy to find a bidet in every household, but…
We are too spoilt by our habits and often we take things for granted.
Toilet paper is a relatively recent invention. Although an American entrepreneur started selling the first commercially packaged toilet paper in the middle of 19th century, it took more than two decades or so before toilet paper came in perforated rolls. That said, the quality of the paper meant splinters were a common problem.
Ultra-soft toilet paper was a dream that wouldn’t be realised until the 20th century.
If we consider the matter from a historical perspective, we realize easily that human beings have gone through centuries and centuries without their 3-ply roll and they have managed.
Back in ancient times, the Romans, who were rather sophisticated and avoided more banal items, as leaves, used a sea sponge on a stick.
They would clean themselves with it, rinse it in the running water (public bathrooms had them on the floor) and leave it soaking in salt water in between uses.
I feel a privileged, anyway, since I don't lack of the precious rolls, but I assure you that I didn't fight for them.
A pinch of humour helps…
10-Apr-2020
My domestic superhero...
When people speak about superheroes, they usually make reference to the cliché of a muscle-bound hunk, addicted to pumping iron, who smashes down the bad guys with his immense supernatural strength.
The superhero par excellence can see through walls, can fly, can jump from skyscraper to skyscraper…A lot of nonsense is talked and written about it (and I use the word "nonsense" because I'm basically polite).
We can find real superheroes anywhere, if we can pay attention to what really matters.
A superhero is a person who does extraordinary deeds and has the ability to do them in a way that a normal person couldn't.
So in order to be a superhero, you need a power that is more exceptional than any power a normal human being could possess, and you need to use that power to accomplish good deeds, but it has very little to do with strictly muscular power.
My personal superhero has great superpowers and he knows how to use them.
He's gifted with intelligence, perspicacity, foresight, sense of humour, empathy and self-irony. He's silent, pragmatic, powerful and whimsical like the best of house-elves, but he's also independent, with a strong personality.
Believe me, the best superheroes are not the ones starring in movies, but they may wear glasses and have a big nose, for instance.
A real personal superhero is the one who can transform every difficult situation in something largely bearable, the one who is always there when I need him, the one who can listen to me seriously and can make me laugh.
My domestic superhero is also the one who is able to find my favourite chocolates in this time of quarantine, because little superfluous things are exactly what I need to cheer up.
09-Apr-2020
Smiling home delivery…
This cheerful and kind delivery girl is our niece Emma, always ready to be useful to her old uncle and aunt.
She goes on errands by bike and never complains if she has to wait on line at our place.
Obviously we try hard to never take advantage of her kind availability, but sometimes it's pleasant to have her visiting.
Unfortunately we are obliged to respect social distancing, so Emma remains in the garden and I cannot invite her indoors for a cup of coffee and a slice of cake.
But more serene times will return.
In the meanwhile it's important to appreciate what we have.
My positive note today is that these necessary restrictions might make us appreciate better the sincere affection of people who care for us.
08-Apr-2020
Self-isolation is not strictly respected by everyone…
Self-isolation is not strictly respected by everyone.
In this case the cat and the photographer have broken the rule, although for a short time.
Frankly speaking I don't feel guilty, because I took just a short walk around my home.
I have started thinking of good sides of this so atypical condition we are facing.
There are some, if we make the necessary little effort to notice them.
The silence…I love this silence. Birds seem to sing louder than usual.
We can perceive their different voices, which under normal circumstances would be covered by car engines and people's chats.
From distance it's even possible to hear the remote passage of trains. Sometimes a bell, even though no church is visible.
In such a gorgeous spring day I feel pleasantly surprised at myself, because I'm in good mood.
07-Apr-2020
A silly quiz...
Today I felt in a rather whimsical mood and I decided to make a silly, visual quiz to entertain you, for at least five minutes…
Here you can find two pictures which are apparently identical; in reality they are different from each other in ten small details.
I'm sure you can find all of them.
In case you could not, I'm also posting a link to the solution.
Let's try to keep a positive mood. Maybe also a pinch of silliness can help.
06-Apr-2020
Late afternoon moon…
I like to think that the moon is there even if I am not looking at it,
even if the sky is light blue and the sun is still shining.
Sometimes I can see her somehow out of her usual context,
and she looks like an embarrassed guest who arrives at a reception in advance.
"Therefore the moon, the governess of floods,
Pale in her anger, washes all the air,
That rheumatic diseases do abound:
And through this distemperature we see
The seasons alter."
WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE, A Midsummer Night's Dream
I think it's an interesting and useful exercise trying to find good sides in our forced self-isolation.
Time has a slower dimension in these weeks and it allows us to perceive everything with deeper attention.