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01-May-2020 Marisa

“Nothing is ever really lost to us as long as we remember it.”

Gland - Vaud (Switzerland)

I don't expect that any of you might waste time reading what I'm going to write.
Actually I'm trying to put my thoughts in words mostly for myself.

There is a little story behind these three objects.
When it's difficult to decide where to start from, it's always better to start from the beginning.

I loved one of my grandfathers in a very special way.
Both my grandfathers were uncommon people and had unusual lives; but here I mean to tell you about my grandfather Antonin.

I met him when he was already very old, since my mother was the last daughter of his second marriage.
He died when I was fifteen or sixteen, but I have unforgettable memories of him.
I think that, one of these days, I'll write his story.
Just to leave traces of him, or else he will disappear completely when I disappear too.
But it's not time for that yet.
It would be too long.

Two of these objects belonged to my grandfather Antonin and after his death they have always been with me.
There is a beautiful silver artefact, probably a fruit bowl, which someone had handmade for him.
There is my grandfather's family name carved on, Koska.
I don't know when it had been made and why.
I had always seen it at my grandparents' home.

Then there is this small bronze bust of great Italian poet Dante Alighieri (whom, by the way I like immensely).
My grandfather kept it on his desk, as paperweight.
If I close my eyes, right now, I can see clearly my grandfather's desk.
It was made of wood and had many small drawers and an amazing rolling shutter, made of wood too, to close it.
Often it remained blocked and my grandfather, who was a sweet and mild man, but became irascible against objects (never against people) that he insulted heavily in German, as if they could understand him, covered the poor piece of furniture with fanciful and creative swearwords.
But he was not really angry, not at all.
When he died I asked for only two things to keep with me, the fruit bowl and the bust of Dante.

But you would protest that in this picture there are three objects.
Right you are. We are coming to the point.

Many years after my grandfather's death I met a woman.
She was smart and well educated, but we didn't become friends, we were just acquaintances, rather good acquaintances, I might say.
Once, at her home I noticed, on the corner of a shelf, a bronze bust of…Beatrice.
Exactly the same style of my Dante. I decided it had to be mine, at all costs.
My Dante had been alone for decades, maybe for more than hundred years; nobody could say how long…He deserved to find again the love of his life.
I had to persuade that woman to give her Beatrice to me. After all her Beatrice had no story.
I asked her and she told me that it was a rather banal bust, which she had found, she didn't remember where either.
My Dante was part of my grandfather's story.

Once again my personal superhero made my wish come true.
The smart and well-educated woman came to visit us and, as all polite guests she wanted to bring something to the hostess; she had thought of something classy and artistic, maybe with flowers…Luckily she asked my husband for advice about my tastes and he, a real superhero, was ready to suggest she bring me her Beatrice.
She hesitated, she thought it was not an enough refined gift, but he insisted that I would be totally happy with it.
So Beatrice could join Dante.
I have lost contact with the smart woman for many years, but Beatrice is still with Dante and with me.

I have the impression that my grandfather is smiling now, with his ironical eyes…

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Graeme23-May-2020 23:04
I love this story & how you came to have these three ornaments, Marisa.V
Charlene Ambrose05-May-2020 16:29
A great story, Marisa, and Beatrice does look like she was made to be a pair with Dante. You have inspired me to dig through my treasures long stored away in a trunk in my garage. V
carol j. phipps02-May-2020 19:00
Warm and wonderful memories. Terrific keepsakes! A book is a great idea, Marisa. V
Neil Marcus02-May-2020 13:49
I fully enjoyed your story/reminisce. You write so well, Marisa
Jeff Real02-May-2020 13:42
What a wonderful treasure and your words are likewise to be treasured!
V
Martin Lamoon01-May-2020 21:57
Interesting to read about the memories that you have about these pieces.
v
larose forest photos01-May-2020 19:47
Such a wonderful, evocative and heartwarming story to accompany the fine photo of the various very special objects. Once again, a winner of a shot and text. V
Patricia Kay01-May-2020 18:27
Wonderful story Marisa it really made my heart sing...and after a long gloomy rainy day you made me smile...love your writing and your way with words...Thank you....BV
fotabug01-May-2020 18:24
Loved your story, Marisa. It was a tender, heartfelt tribute to a loved grandfather. Thank you for acquainting me with him. I like him, and I am also happy to know that Dante found Beatrice. I can almost see him smile.
Blandine Mangin01-May-2020 18:02
beautiful ! v
Johnny JAG01-May-2020 17:02
You're superhero comes to the rescue again, nice story about your grandfather.