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11-OCT-2013

The first adventure

For lack of much else to photograph right now, I’m posting a picture of our new home. It’s a large enough house surrounded entirely by a high wall and has two living rooms, one for men and one for women, along with other peculiarities, such as A/C that refuses to turn off (UPDATE: The control was hidden behind a refrigerator, so one problem solved) and a lack of built-ins Americans take for granted. It is one of the few houses in this quarter that actually has a garden with grass, so is great for Sahraa.

We were taken to an old souk this evening to go abaya shopping. (I wore one of my loaners with a headscarf.) I don’t think I’ve ever seen traffic like that in my life, and it must have taken two hours to get there in what should have been a 20-minute drive. But it was fascinating, with crowds of people out buying for the religious holiday that runs though all of next week. The women were all dressed in their very conservative abayas and head covering, with only eyes showing and the regulation black, but what I discovered was that most of them are beautifully decorated – a real fashion statement! There were countless abaya shops, staffed entirely by men (!) but filled to capacity with women looking for a special one for the holiday. We went back to the shop I had liked when suddenly the lights went out and all customers immediately exited (or were pushed out of) the store. It seems that the religious police were in the souk, and all these shops close (I was told because they are selling “flashy” abayas, even though it’s mandatory to wear this kind of dress). We went back in later, and the same thing happened. At this point I decided I wasn’t going to get my own abaya that evening (and was disappointed because with the decoration, some of them were actually quite nice looking ;-)). We were heading out to find our driver when who do we see but the religious police! I knew who they were without even being told, but these two didn’t seem as frightening as the pictures I had seen, although I know they can be. Unfortunately, taking any pictures in the souk was totally out of the question, and what a pity because it was fascinating – a real slice of life here. Back through less heavy traffic to a McDonald's for some comfort food as by that hour there was no time to make dinner.

I was thinking of starting a blog but really have no time for that at present, so for the time being will relate Riyadh adventures here. I don’t know how many of them there will be, but this in fact was a great evening that I wanted to share.

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gerard belbeoch11-Sep-2015 13:27
That's quite a start to your new adventure.
Carol How19-Jul-2014 00:04
Looks like a very nice sanctuary…V
MarcViskens21-May-2014 19:50
pretty corner Helen
Raymond Ma15-Nov-2013 06:35
This is very nice! V
Sheila13-Nov-2013 09:25
The house looks interesting and very nice from this viewpoint.
Loved your first adventure. Looking forward to hearing more about this different way of life.
Chris Spracklen29-Oct-2013 13:01
I hope you will both be very happy in your new home, Helen.
Looks like a fine house with a very interesting living room arrangement.
Could that catch on over here, I wonder?! ;o)
Carolyn Rasmussen19-Oct-2013 14:16
Best wishes to you and your husband on your new adventure. You write very well!
Ehsom Seleba 16-Oct-2013 13:18
Good Luck Helen-,Miklos is still crossing his fingers.
Jola Dziubinska15-Oct-2013 22:43
Looks like a nice house for your new home.
Carol Rollins15-Oct-2013 13:17
It is a very pretty house, and lucky that you get one with a garden. ~
Outstanding story, Helen. I look forward to more.
Lillian Rodriguez13-Oct-2013 06:09
Your new adventure has just started! May it be full of nice experiences...and may you get to make more exterior photos as well. Take care and enjoy your new home!
Stephanie13-Oct-2013 01:03
Looking forward to reading more adventures from your sand castle! Pretty home! V
pkocinski12-Oct-2013 22:26
That's quite a start to your new adventure.
Mairéad12-Oct-2013 20:34
This looks quite nice and at least you have some greenery.
Sounds like shopping is going to be quite exciting.
Gary A. Rich (GRainelev)12-Oct-2013 19:58
Fantastic story, Helen. We wish you well for your stay here. It is a bit different, isn't it. You should keep a record of these stories, when you do get the time, start a blog, maybe when you leave!!!! V.
janescottcumming12-Oct-2013 17:53
Well the house looks ok and nice that there is some grass for Sahraa. Quite a story about your shopping adventure! This is going to be an interesting experience for you and I'm sure we will all enjoy reading about your adventures. V
gerrit12-Oct-2013 17:19
Quit a story. I wish you good luck and a lot of inspiration.
Pieter Bos12-Oct-2013 16:13
Great story Helen! Love to read your adventures! ~V
Zoltán Balogh12-Oct-2013 16:01
This house looks really nice Helen! Thanks for the info, too - quite interesting for anyone living far from Saudi Arabia. All the best! V
Bob Patton12-Oct-2013 14:50
Fascinating place in many ways. I was there many years ago and found that once inside the walls of their homes people were relaxed and women were able to be much more western, but once outside the wall they had to observe the norm. Some of the abayas were elegant, despite covering everything except the eyes. Things change slowly.
globalgadabout12-Oct-2013 14:25
this sounds like quite a challenge adapting to an apparently ultra-conservative society...'flashy abayas' seems an oxymoron...the religious fanatics need to cut the people, particularly women, some slack..
Marisa Livet12-Oct-2013 13:02
It must be a challenging change in your daily habits. Maybe you can find time to develop a parallel skill for still life photography indoors...
Barry S Moore12-Oct-2013 11:51
It is fascinating to read your story in this distant land.
Chris Morton12-Oct-2013 10:00
the house and garden look as cool & tranquil a spot as you will get and maybe all that all-envelopping black is good for the heat
danad12-Oct-2013 08:53
Seems to be a good place to live ! Thank you for sharing this kind of "blog" with us. All the best.
Tom LeRoy12-Oct-2013 08:53
Thank you for sharing your stories and adventures. It is so interesting. Your new home looks comfortable and I am very happy that there is grass for Sahraa! Nice light and shadow in your image! V
Milan Vogrin12-Oct-2013 08:02
Look a nice house!
Gerard Koehl12-Oct-2013 05:39
Merci Helen pour le partage de votre début de séjour. La maison est très belle. V
marko gregoric12-Oct-2013 05:28
Nice house. V
joseantonio12-Oct-2013 04:13
It will be interesting to follow your adventures in that new setting.V.
Will Hoskins12-Oct-2013 01:55
I think maybe you have started a blog - here. You already have an audience interested in your new adventure and I know with your eye you can find interesting subjects even with the ridiculous restrictions.
Isabel Cutler12-Oct-2013 01:22
Sheesh...what an introduction to shopping in Riyadh!
Your quarters look quite nice.
Looking forward to the next chapter of your adventure.
Lieve Snellings12-Oct-2013 00:58
What as tory Helen ...
Your house look great, and green in the garden is great too...
Wish you all the bst and look forward to see and read more of your live ove there
Gill Kopy12-Oct-2013 00:31
The house looks very pleasant and great that Sahraa will be able to smell grass !! The account of your shopping sounds like quite the adventure ! Too bad no shots :(
larose forest photos12-Oct-2013 00:14
More greenery than I expected, and the house is really quite lovely looking. But I am riveted by your adventure in the souk. Fascinating stuff. The idea of a McDonald's was rather jarring, a bit of Americana in that restrictive society. V
Bill Klein11-Oct-2013 23:04
What a start, Helen! Your house looks really nice. Hope you can find a way to turn off the AC :). Stay safe!!
John Hamers11-Oct-2013 22:54
Quite a story Helen !, seems like a nice house !! V
Walter Otto Koenig11-Oct-2013 22:46
A fascinating start. It is unfortunate that it is such a restrictive environment. I find the concept of "religious police" quite astounding.
woody3411-Oct-2013 22:42
The house looks lovely and your visit to the souk for your "fashion statement" sounds fascinating even though a little dangerous...take care ,Helen and thanks for sharing...V
Jim Coffman11-Oct-2013 22:39
A great story and a great image of this nice looking home! Be careful out there,Helen!